tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1386287572165491293.post324787825838410234..comments2023-10-10T08:16:31.725-04:00Comments on Okeoghene: Kids before Spouse?Okeoghenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06374233345612835685noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1386287572165491293.post-5622962713671875242014-11-24T06:13:02.525-05:002014-11-24T06:13:02.525-05:00I think balance is important. Kids need nurturing ...I think balance is important. Kids need nurturing but they spouse should not be neglected too Toinlicioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08672236565492184927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1386287572165491293.post-84154700227727691692014-11-23T07:16:05.579-05:002014-11-23T07:16:05.579-05:00All the words of advice I have heard from seasoned...All the words of advice I have heard from seasoned counsellors have indicated that your spouse should come first. Ideally, kids come and go, but spouses will be there forever. Also, many couples don't survive the empty nest years because they spent all their 20 years concentrating on their kids, instead of spouse.@ilolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18034184376612190658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1386287572165491293.post-54259043876666990842014-11-22T08:11:34.756-05:002014-11-22T08:11:34.756-05:00For me I think there should be a balance. I am try...For me I think there should be a balance. I am trying to incorporate all the aspects; including the ones that suggest the man should be more understanding. Once there is a healthy balance, it should be okay. If you have a man that is so possessive up to the extent that he wants every attention from you to be concentrated on him, you might need to remember that the kids deserve some as well, on the other hand, if you are one that thinks because you are now a mother you have to neglect your roles as a wife, then you also need to put that in check. Both relationships are really important. You just need to try to devote your time accordingly. <br /> Janyl Benylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10097032839301881132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1386287572165491293.post-67710292735701743032014-11-19T02:59:14.404-05:002014-11-19T02:59:14.404-05:00This argument has gone on for a while and even tho...This argument has gone on for a while and even though I am not married, I totally agree with your point of view. <br /><br />The other question I ask people that believe wives should choose their kids over their spouses is "What happens to your relationship with your husband when the kids are out of the house?" dayorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04464749657251751761noreply@blogger.com